The Ultimate Elden Ring Guide for First-Time Players: So You Don't Get COMPLETELY Wrecked
So, you're thinking about diving into Elden Ring. Awesome. It's an incredible, massive, beautiful, & often brutal game that will probably consume your life for a little while. But here's the thing: Elden Ring doesn't hold your hand. It kinda just throws you into its gigantic world, the Lands Between, & expects you to figure things out. Which is both cool & TERRIFYING for a new player.
Honestly, that initial shock & feeling of being overwhelmed is part of the experience. But a little guidance can go a long way in making sure you're having more "aha!" moments than "I want to throw my controller through the wall" moments. I've sunk hundreds of hours into this game, & I want to share some of that hard-earned knowledge with you.
This isn't a step-by-step walkthrough that'll spoil all the magic. Think of it more like a friend giving you the inside scoop, the stuff I WISH I knew when I first started. We'll cover everything from making your character to surviving your first few hours & beyond.
Before You Even Start: The Mindset
First things first, let's talk about the most important part of playing Elden Ring: your brain. You are going to die. A lot. It's not a sign that you're bad at the game; it's a core mechanic. The marketing for FromSoftware's older games literally used the tagline "Prepare to Die." Every death is a lesson. You died to that knight's three-hit combo? Okay, now you know to dodge a third time instead of trying to attack. That hidden enemy pushed you off a cliff? Now you know to check corners. Embrace death as a learning tool, not a failure, & the whole experience becomes way less stressful.
The other big thing is that you have total freedom. If you run into a boss or an area that feels impossible, you are almost certainly under-leveled or under-equipped for it. The game is designed for you to just... leave. Go explore somewhere else, find new weapons, level up, & come back when you're a certified badass. Don't beat your head against a wall for hours on end. The open world is your greatest asset.
Creating Your Tarnished: Don't Stress, But a Little Thought Helps
When you start a new game, you'll be hit with the character creator. You can spend hours making your character look perfect, but don't worry, you can change your appearance later in the game for free. What you can't change easily are your starting Class & Keepsake, so let's focus on that.
Picking Your Starting Class
Your class is just a starting point. It's a template that gives you some initial stats & gear, but you can build your character any way you want as you level up. You're not locked into anything. That said, some classes make the early game MUCH easier for beginners.
Here are a few solid choices:
- Vagabond: This is probably the top recommendation for new players. You start with the highest health (Vigor), good armor, & a solid sword & shield. That 100% physical block shield will be your best friend early on.
- Samurai: An AMAZING starter class. You get a fantastic weapon, the Uchigatana, which causes bleed damage (super powerful), & a longbow for ranged attacks. High dexterity makes this a great foundation for a fast, damage-focused build.
- Astrologer: If you like the idea of slinging spells from a distance, this is your go-to. You start with a staff & two offensive sorceries. It can make a lot of early encounters easier since you can kill things before they even reach you.
- Confessor: A cool hybrid class that mixes melee combat with Faith-based incantations, which include a healing spell & a stealth buff. Very versatile.
Honestly, pick what sounds fun. The Wretch starts at level 1 with a club & nothing else, which is a fun challenge for veterans but probably not the best for a first-timer.
The Best Keepsake
After your class, you pick a Keepsake. This is a one-time starting gift. A few of these are WAY more useful than others for a new player.
- Golden Seed: This is the best choice, hands down. It gives you an extra charge for your healing flask (your Flask of Crimson Tears) right from the start. You'll find more of these later, but having an extra heal from the get-go is a massive advantage.
- Stonesword Key: These keys are used to open special locked areas that often contain good loot. They are consumable, though. You can find them in the world, but starting with one lets you get a cool item early.
- Lands Between Rune: This gives you 3,000 runes (the game's currency for leveling up & buying stuff) right away. It's a nice little boost to get your first few levels quickly.
My advice? Take the Golden Seed. You can't go wrong with more healing.
Your First Hour in Limgrave: A Gentle Nudge in the Right Direction
Okay, you've made it through the tutorial cave (or maybe you ran past it, you brave soul) & you're in Limgrave. You see that giant, armored knight on a horse? That's the Tree Sentinel. DO NOT FIGHT HIM. I'm serious. He is there specifically to teach you that you can, & should, run away from scary things. Come back for him in like, 20 levels.
Here’s a loose "checklist" for your first steps:
- Find Varre & The First Step Site of Grace: Right where you emerge, you'll see a Site of Grace (your checkpoints) & a guy in a white mask named Varre. Talk to him. He'll give you some cryptic advice. Sites of Grace are where you'll level up, manage your spells, & replenish your flasks. Resting at one also respawns most enemies in the world.
- Head to the Church of Elleh: Follow the golden light from the Site of Grace. It subtly guides you toward main story points. You'll find a church with a merchant named Kalé. BUY THE CRAFTING KIT from him. This unlocks the ability to craft items, which is super useful. Also, grab a Torch. Trust me, you'll need it for dark caves.
- Get Your Horse, Torrent: Head towards the big ruined gate camp north of the church, the Gatefront Ruins. There's another Site of Grace there. When you rest at it (or a few others in the overworld), a cutscene will trigger where a woman named Melina appears. Accept her accord. She'll give you the Spectral Steed Whistle, which lets you summon your horse, Torrent. Torrent is your best friend. He lets you travel fast, escape danger, & even double jump. Melina also gives you the ability to level up at Sites of Grace.
- Grab the Map & Whetstone Knife: In the Gatefront Ruins, look for a stone pillar with a glowing item on it. This is a Map Fragment. Picking it up will fill in that part of your world map. Also in the ruins, there's an underground passage. Go down there to find a chest with the Whetstone Knife. This item is CRUCIAL. It lets you change the Ashes of War on your weapons at any Site of Grace.
Understanding the Core Mechanics
Elden Ring has a lot of systems going on. Here are the most important ones to wrap your head around.
Combat: More Than Just Hacking & Slashing
Combat in Elden Ring is a dance. You have to learn your opponent's moves, dodge through their attacks, & look for openings.
- Stamina is Everything: That green bar under your health is your stamina. Every action—attacking, dodging, blocking, sprinting—uses it. If you run out, you're a sitting duck. ALWAYS leave a little bit of stamina to dodge away.
- Rolling is Better Than Blocking: Dodging (rolling) gives you "invincibility frames" or "i-frames" where you can't be hit. Rolling through an attack is often safer than trying to block it, especially against big enemies. Your equip load affects your roll; a light load gives you a fast, long roll, while a heavy load gives you a slow, clumsy one (a "fat roll"). Keep an eye on your equip load in your stats screen & try to stay at "Medium Load" or "Light Load."
- Guard Counters are Your Friend: This is a new mechanic in Elden Ring & it's amazing for beginners. After blocking an attack with your shield, immediately press the heavy attack button. You'll do a powerful counter-attack that can often break an enemy's stance, leaving them open for a critical hit (a "riposte"). It's much safer than trying to parry.
- Jumping Attacks & Stance Breaking: Jumping has an offensive purpose! A jumping heavy attack does a lot of damage & is great for breaking an enemy's stance (or "poise"). Most enemies, including bosses, have an invisible poise meter. Hit them with enough heavy attacks, jumping attacks, & guard counters, & you'll hear a loud CLANG. They'll slump over, letting you get in close for a devastating critical hit.
Runes, Leveling Up, & Upgrading
Runes are your lifeblood. You get them from killing enemies & using consumable rune items you find. You use them to level up your character's stats & to buy things from merchants. If you die, you drop all the runes you were carrying. You get one chance to run back to your bloodstain & pick them up. If you die again before you get them, they're gone forever. So, if you've got a lot of runes, it's often wise to go spend them before tackling a new boss.
When it comes to getting stronger, there are two key things:
- Leveling Up Your Stats: Talk to Melina at any Site of Grace to turn runes into levels. For beginners, the most important stat BY FAR is Vigor. Vigor increases your HP. Having a big health bar gives you more room for error. Seriously, get your Vigor to 20-25 before you start pumping a lot of points into damage stats. It makes the game so much more forgiving. After that, focus on the stats that help your chosen playstyle (Strength for big heavy weapons, Dexterity for faster weapons, Intelligence for sorcery, Faith for incantations, etc.). Don't spread your points out too much; try to focus on a specific build.
- Upgrading Your Weapons: This is arguably MORE important than leveling up, especially early on. You upgrade weapons using Smithing Stones at a blacksmith anvil (there's one at the Church of Elleh). Upgrading your weapon gives you a much bigger damage boost than putting one point into Strength or Dexterity. Always prioritize upgrading your main weapon.
Exploration & Your Map
The world is HUGE. It's easy to get lost or forget where you saw something cool. Use your map markers! The game gives you a bunch of different icons you can place on your map. Saw a boss you couldn't beat? Mark it with a skull. Found a locked door? Mark it with a key icon. This is your personal quest log.
As you explore, you'll find:
- Golden Seeds & Sacred Tears: Look for small, glowing golden saplings to find Golden Seeds, which increase your number of flask uses. You can find Sacred Tears in churches, usually at the foot of a big statue. These increase the amount of HP/FP your flasks restore.
- Spirit Ashes: Early on, after getting Torrent, go back to the Church of Elleh at night. You should meet a witch named Renna who will give you the Spirit Calling Bell. This lets you summon spirits to help you in battle. These summons are a HUGE help, especially against bosses. They can draw the boss's attention, giving you time to heal or attack. Don't listen to anyone who says using them is "cheating." They are a tool the game gives you, so use them!
- Dungeons, Caves, & Catacombs: The world is full of small dungeons with bosses at the end that drop valuable items, Ashes of War, or new Spirit Ashes. Keep an eye out for their entrances along cliff walls. Sometimes you'll see statues pointing the way to them.
Let's Talk About Automation & Engagement for a Sec
Okay, quick detour. You're exploring this massive world, talking to NPCs, & trying to figure out what's going on. It’s all about interaction. In the real world, businesses have a similar challenge. They have a huge "world" (their website) & they need to guide visitors, answer their questions, & keep them engaged. It's pretty interesting how the principles are the same.
A lot of businesses are now using AI to help with this. For example, a platform like Arsturn helps businesses build no-code AI chatbots that are trained on their own data. Imagine if every merchant in Elden Ring had a little helper that could instantly answer all your questions about their quests or what items are good against the next boss. That's kinda what Arsturn does for businesses. It helps them create these custom AI chatbots to provide instant customer support, answer questions 24/7, & engage with website visitors. It's all about making that "exploration" of a website easier & more helpful, just like this guide is trying to do for you in the Lands Between.
Final Tips from a Fellow Tarnished
Alright, we've covered a ton. Here are a few final, rapid-fire tips to send you on your way.
- Two-Hand Your Weapon: By pressing Y (or Triangle) & your right bumper (R1/RB), you can two-hand your right-hand weapon. This increases your strength for that weapon by 50% & boosts your damage. It's great when you know you have an opening for a big hit.
- Read Item Descriptions: Seriously. The lore of Elden Ring is hidden in the descriptions of items, weapons, & armor. It's how you piece together the story.
- Don't Be Afraid to Use a Guide (Sometimes): While going in blind is amazing, some of the NPC questlines are incredibly obscure & easy to mess up. If you're really invested in a character's story, don't feel bad about looking up where to find them next.
- Experiment! You'll find dozens of weapons. Try them all out! You can respec your stats later in the game, so don't worry about committing to the "wrong" build forever.
- Have Fun: This is the most important one. Elden Ring is a game. If you're getting frustrated, take a break. Go for a walk. Come back when you're refreshed. The Lands Between will be waiting for you.
Hope this was helpful. Elden Ring is a journey, and one of the most rewarding gaming experiences you can have. It's a true adventure in every sense of the word. Now go out there & become the Elden Lord. Let me know what you think when you get your footing